Kelly Oliver Dougall
Hi, I’m Kelly Oliver Dougall. I’m a counsellor, podcast host, and an advocate for women’s sex-based rights and free speech. I work with women who’ve been cancelled, bullied, or harassed - often in their workplaces or communities - helping them rebuild confidence so they can move forward again.
Alongside my counselling work, I also run a home care business, so I understand the realities of juggling care, responsibility, and trying to stay true to your values.
On my podcast, I speak with women navigating similar challenges.
Kelly Oliver Dougall
The Complexities of Child Loss and Family Dynamics
Summary
In this conversation, psychotherapist Georgia Howard discusses her experiences working with families who have suffered the loss of a child. She explores the profound impact of grief on parents and siblings, societal expectations surrounding grief, and the unique challenges faced by women in these situations. The discussion also delves into the complexities of gender dynamics, the importance of women's spaces, and the implications of modern language and identity politics. Howard expresses concern over the medicalization of gender identity and the potential exploitation of women in surrogacy arrangements. The conversation concludes with reflections on the future of family and the need for women to reclaim their power in society.
Takeaways
Grief is a unique and personal journey that varies for each individual.
The loss of a child profoundly impacts the entire family unit.
Societal expectations can hinder the grieving process.
Women often bear the emotional burden of grief and support.
Language and identity are evolving, affecting societal norms.
The medicalization of gender identity raises ethical concerns.
Surrogacy can exploit vulnerable women and complicate family dynamics.
Women’s spaces are essential for emotional safety and support.
The future of family structures is at risk due to societal changes.
Women must reclaim their power to influence societal norms.
Sound Bites
"It's a very high trauma place to work."
"Women need their own space."
"We can never lose the word woman."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Grief and Loss Therapy
05:38 Societal Attitudes Towards Grief
11:24 The Changing Language Around Gender
17:09 Cultural Shifts and Family Structures
26:06 Perceptions of Body Image and Reality
31:43 Navigating Social Norms and Boundaries
37:08 The Dangers of Gender Ideology
44:19 The Influence of Media on Gender Perception
49:31 Collective Pain and Women's Empowerment
55:59 The Importance of Women’s Spaces
01:02:17 The Erasure of Women in Society